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Saturday, January 16, 2010

SINGING, MUSIC and READING

David singing with members of our wonderful Sharer's Sunday School Class
Studies have shown that listening to the 'right type' of music is good for the brain.  We know  it can be calming for the nerves, good for the soul, and also causes us to reflect on past memories.   Our home is never quiet...... we have music playing or the TV going when we're awake.


I never thought we'd own an I Pod, but we are the proud owners of two. I bought one and downloaded all of our favorite music. I  dock it into our speakers scattered throughout the house, and we have beautiful music in every room.

Last  Christmas our sister in law surprised us with an I Pod Shuffle. She loaded the I Pod with beautiful music  she has collected.  

I've noticed when the house is quiet,  David seems withdrawn.     When I turn the music on he perks up....... . David has always loved music!
One Christmas we gave him this church bench engraved with his name and music notes
David didn't take the time to sing in the choir when he was younger, but our daughter was always   encouraging  him to join, and to our delight, when he no longer worked for Coca-Cola he found more time, and he joined our church choir. The choir was a very important part of his life for the past 10+ years.    The  members were like family, and the  director  just happens to be our very dear friend.. who is like family.  It was so touching for me to see the men in the choir help David find the pages in the hymnal.  He stopped singing in the choir over a year ago;  it was getting too hard for him to find his place when a song had more than one verse. 

David has always been an avid reader!     I thank God he can still read!!!!!   When he isn't walking the dog or sweeping the patio, he's reading.    He reads the Wall Street Journal and the San Antonio paper from cover to cover each day.  I have know idea how much he comprehends........oh well.

David can't write or draw,  add or subtract, dial the telephone, use the TV remote control, cordless telephone, microwave etc.   However, he can answer our simple telephone (photo of our simple phone) it only requires him to pick up the receiver to answer.  

I hate Alzheimer's  ... it takes so much!!    I must remember what he can still do and his sweet disposition (most of the time).We still have so much to be thankful for!!!!!!   
And I say, " thank you God that David can walk the dog, sweep the patio, read, enjoy listening to music, enjoys every meal, answer the telephone, and  he usually remembers to tell me whose called." 

12 comments:

Helen said...

Dear Dolores,
It is always heartwarming ~ and at the same time sad to read your posts. It is just so difficult watching those we love slowly lose the skills we (and they) had always just taken for granted (in a good way.)

I won't be on the computer much this week but wanted to thank you for extending condolences on the death of a 49-year old who could see no way out of whatever pain he was in ~ and took his own life. We are still reeling from the shock.

Debbie said...

I hate it too, Dolores. And I thank God along with you that David is still able to do things he enjoys.
Debbie

Papa said...

Dolores, My heart goes out to you and David. Be happy and thankful for the good times. I am reminded of an epitaph that I read. "Look at this stone as you pass by for as you are so once was I. As you pass on then remember me for as I am you soon will be." I'm not where David is yet, but I will be. Keep smiling!

Tomarie said...

It must be so hard thinking about all the things he "used" to do...but as always, I admire your ability (and choice) to look at what he Can do and stay positive! You will always Always be a role model to me because of that!!!!
Love you!! L~

Moments of Grace said...

Dolores,
You always touch my heart with the love you have for your husband. I know you are facing many heartbreaking days---I am sure you sometimes do not know what to expect next. But this I know, God has placed you in David's life to bring him joy and peace and, most of all, love as he faces this dreaded disease. In return, you are finding joy in such simple things as knowing David can read and answer the phone.
You inspire me so and I always leave your blog encouraged by your bright spirit and loving words.
May His blessings come to you and David in abundance today.

In Grace,
Marie

Rebecca Nelson said...

A few days ago one of my childhood friends (from back in 6th grade) called me up and we chatted for hours. Unlike me, she has not had good relationships with men. About a year ago her third marriage ended.

As we chatted along I told her how sorry I was that she was hurting and then added something like 'I wish I knew why some marriages brought so much happiness and joy to people while others faced only despair'.

My friend then said this...

"Oh, I know why. It's because people like me need to see people like you MAKE IT! It gives us hope for better days and shows us in person God's Amazing Grace!"

You give us all hope. You are showing us God's love. You are giving us strength to face tomorrow.

Love to you and David.

Rebecca

Lynne (lynnesgiftsfromtheheart) said...

Hi sweetie, thank you for always sending such wonderful uplifting comments. You are a treasure for sure. David is so fortunate to have you. This disease is one full of mysteries. Mr.P no longer answers the house phone, uses his cell phone , after I programmed it to hit 1 number instead of him having to dial the full number. There are so many things he does remember and many he doesn't. Each day is a challenge, more for him than for me. Oh, don't get me wrong I do have my down moments and those aren't easy. People like you give me that extra lift and put a smile on my face... hugs to you ~lynne~

judi/Gmj said...

Prayers and hugs, may you remain strong.

Happy@Home said...

I am with you on hating Alzheimer's. It is a cruel disease to be sure. It must have been hard to see David have to give up singing in the choir. I think it is so admirable that you are able to focus on what he is still able to do and enjoy.

JeanMac said...

Let me join the "I hate AD group".

Joy said...

I like how you made the phone 'simple' with the two photos for speed dial (I assume). I also like how you have the lovely music going and how that has ministered to and calmed David. If I had lived closer to the nursing home where my mother resided, I now would have made sure she would have been able to listen to Christian hymns--the ones she loved to sing and even play on a organ. I think she would have liked that--better than silence or a radio tuned to nothing but 'blabber'. Yes, David has lost a lot, but it appears that he still has so much.

Joy said...

Just to clarify for my last message: my mother had Alzheimers.

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