A lack of sleep, mixed with fear of the uncertain/unknown, can be paralyzing at times. It's amazing how any issue appears so scary and magnified during the night, then come the light of day, and life is bright and beautiful. Thank you God for daylight!
Coming out of an Austrian salt mine - 1987
I'm happy to say that David is still doing remarkably well during the day!
For a person in the mid stage of Alzheimer's, he amazes me, but ...... I am seeing some changes at night. David wakes up a couple of times during the night to go potty; I try my best to listen when he gets up. I, now need to direct him to the bathroom and back to the bed. One night this week, I didn't wake up, but Casey barked and woke me up........ David wasn't in bed, and I called for him........ no David. I walked all over the house , and found him in the living room, curled up on the cold floor, ......he said he couldn't find the bed. Try sleeping after that.
David still takes his pills by himself, with me casually looking over his shoulder making sure he takes them correctly. If I mention helping him, he'll say no.
Last night was the first time he appeared too confused to take them himself, but thankfully he was willing to take the pills from me.
I'm hoping this post doesn't come across as depressing, I certainly don't want it to be...... this is our life with Alzheimer's, and we do have a good life, in spite of ..........
Today's a new day, and I thank God that David's not confused and he's doing well right now!!!
And I say, "thank you God for daylight and so many good memories."
Austria 1987
Last night was the first time he appeared too confused to take them himself, but thankfully he was willing to take the pills from me.
I'm hoping this post doesn't come across as depressing, I certainly don't want it to be...... this is our life with Alzheimer's, and we do have a good life, in spite of ..........
Today's a new day, and I thank God that David's not confused and he's doing well right now!!!
And I say, "thank you God for daylight and so many good memories."
Austria 1987
12 comments:
I can't thank you enough for posting about your life.It really helps me in mine to know someone out there has a family member in the same situation.It really is not easy I know that and I can read between the lines.If I were closer I would hug you.
Diane
Your photos are all wonderful, smiles and happy memories. Someone at church said to me, well at least you have the Lord in your life, makes it easier. I said no, it does not make it easier, but I know to Whom I can go to when I need help and comfort and strength... Blessings on you both!
Night can certainly be a scary time. Thank goodness Casey alerted you to the situation. I worry my grandmother will be in this type of situation one day in the not too distant future. She is still in her own home but those days seem to be coming to an end. Blessed is David for having such a wonderful, strong, beautiful partner to help him.
Hugs,
Karla
I am finding vigilance at night is necessary. Not easy to do. Your story made my heart race. I can't even think about you going back to sleep.
You are in my prayers daily.
hugs,
judi
Please don't ever worry about depressing any of us when you are sharing the trials and tribulations of what you are going through. We all need one another...and you've certainly given to so many others throughout you life! I am so very sorry Uncle David is having a hard time at night...I know this has got to be difficult on you both. I'm praying very hard!!!
Love you,
L~
What precious memories, you and David enjoying a marvelous trip.
Don't worry about expressing yourself in your blog. We are here for you and we all are in this together. You help so many others, let us share your pain.
So sorry to hear about the night episode... prayers for you both.
I just came across your blog, and I'm so thankful I did! As I read this post, I was nodding my head, remembering. My mother passed away in Feb 2007 after a long struggle with Alzheimer's; I wish I'd had your blog to turn to back then! I know what you are going through and it's wonderful that you can blog about it. Alzheimer's is a tough battle, but it sounds like you and David are doing well. I know there are bad days, but hopefully the good days will carry you through the bad ones.
I see my friend Diane (Crafty Passions) follows you too. Diane has been a great help to me allowing me to vent as I cared for my aging parents in the years just before their deaths.
Hang in there, I'll keep you in my prayers.
I say to my kids, "Things always look worse at night. In the morning it won't seem as bad." I love all the pictures in your blog. I must find more for mine.
I say to my kids, "Things always look worse at night. In the morning it won't seem as bad." I love all the pictures in your blog. I must find more for mine.
I say to my kids, "Things always look worse at night. In the morning it won't seem as bad." I love all the pictures in your blog. I must find more for mine.
I say to my kids, "Things always look worse at night. In the morning it won't seem as bad." I love all the pictures in your blog. I must find more for mine.
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