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"LIFE IS NOT ABOUT WEATHERING THE STORM, ...IT'S ABOUT LEARNING TO DANCE IN THE RAIN"

Monday, May 3, 2010

A LITTLE of THIS and THAT

Update on our granddaughter: (click) Cassandra
Thank you for your prayers and continued prayers
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Our life with Alzheimer's has been very stable and almost normal this past week.  

I've noticed recently, when David is reading, he reads aloud.  He's having trouble understanding what he reads, so reading aloud helps.  I'm so thankful he continues reading, it helps to fill his day.
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 Our Latest News:
The last thing on earth I thought we needed in our life RIGHT NOW, would be a cat.   We have an inside cat and our dog, Casey...                 However, .....

I started feeding a young black and orange kitty 6 or 8 weeks ago.   I named her Lovey, and I decided to have her 'fixed' in a couple of weeks ..... she'd be our outside cat.   She and Casey like one another, and that was a big plus.

Well, five days ago.... I was walking around our yard, admiring our beautiful flowers.... when out of the corner of my eye.... I see movement.    Oh my, Lovey didn't tell me she was a mother.  She brought 3 kittens to our corner flower bed  during the night.
Lovey is one happy little kitty mama.  She found someone to help  feed her babies...... and here we are.

NOT what we wanted, but how do you say no to kittens that are so cute!!




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I'm working hard on trying NOT to sweat the small stuff.   These comments by Erma Bombeck, are close to my heart.

IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - BY ERMA BOMBECK
                                   (written after she found out she was dying from cancer).

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of
pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.

I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.
I would have talked less and listened more.
I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.
I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.
I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.
I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.
I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains.
I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.
I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.
Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.
When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, 'Later. Now go get washed up for dinner.' There would have been more 'I love you's' More 'I'm sorrys.'
But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute.look at it and really see it . . live it and never give it back. STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!!!
Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more, or who's doing what
Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us.

17 comments:

JeanMac said...

Oh, boy! You have your hands full - hope some friends need kittens!

judi/Gmj said...

That is the miracle of life, it just come to your back yard when you least expect it.
Unconditional love. Yep it's still a miracle.
Hugs and continued prayers.
Judi

Diane at Crafty Passions said...

What a sweet post !
Kittens ..... that's adorable !
How do you look into those sweet little faces and say no..... impossible!!!
My MIL reads loudly to herself too otherwise it dosen't penatrate her mind, TV is out now and it frustrates her.
Good Luck to your Grandaughter on her surgery!
Diane

Barbara said...

Oh man, the kitty nursery happened to me once...only I got five!! They are too cute though, and who can say no to kitties?

Glad your hubby still gets enjoyment out of reading. I can't imagine not being able to read...and don't want to!

I'm virtually helping with the kitties (pat pat, belly rub). Good luck with them!

Barbara said...

P.S.: That's one of my favorite Erma Bombeck columns. I miss her.

Terynn said...

Kitties! Surprise kitties! (chuckles) What are you gonna do? They are cute. They chose you. :)

And I love the Bombeck piece, too. I clipped it out of the newspaper when I was a teen and carried it in my billfold for many, many years. It is a great remembrance.

Rebecca Nelson said...

Delores...

Your beautiful kitties found YOU...they must have sensed your kindness before they made your yard their new home.

I love the way God works...

I posted this same poem from EB when I first started blogging. I needed it today to put some ugliness of late into perspective.

Thank you, friend. God used you to minister to me and the words you shared have blessed me.

Love to you~Rebecca

Jenny's Place Online said...

I think the poem you have posted must really have helped after seeing the kittens....lol...!!!! Enjoy each second of your day. Best wishes, Jenny

Janean said...

i took the candle, car window and going to bed when ill advice and LIVE it.

great post.

Helen said...

Oh, oh! If I lived close to you I would come get the adorable orange kitten! I really would!

I awakened this morning thinking about you and wondering how your little granddaughter was doing .....

I volunteered at Aspen Ridge yesterday ... we sang untold numbers of songs. After 'My Country 'Tis Of Thee' and 'The Star Spangled Banner' Harold (one of the residents) gave a most rousing speech about our country, what it has given us and the importance of giving back, being a patriot and so much more. It was just beautiful!

Happy@Home said...

I just went to your daughter's blog to read the update on Cassandra. I was sorry to read that it doesn't look like she will be able to be home for her birthday. I have been and will continue to say prayers on her behalf. She is a brave young lady and your daughter sounds like a very special gal with a very loving heart.
Lovey and her kitties are so sweet. I can see how you would become attached.

xinex said...

The kitties are really cute, Dolores and how good of you to adopt them. But how sad about Cassandra. It makes me mad too that they made her into a guinea pig and made her condition worse. But I am happy to hear that there is a surgery that will help her. I hope she has a wonderful birthday no matter how she celebrates it. She is such a pretty and sweet girl and I feel so bad that she had to go through what she has been through. I will continue to pray for her....Christine

KathyB. said...

Kittens, the very word makes my heart melt! Now you have some tiny furry beings to find homes for, should be easy. They are so cute and the mama trusts you.

I am glad to read David is reading and life is pleasant now, that is such a blessing.

I love those words by Erma Bombeck.

I will be praying for Cassandra.

Vikki G said...

I must say that it is a real blessing from the Lord~ these little animals that He brings into our lives! What beautiful cats~ We have four and the joy that they bring family...you never know what their going to do. Loved you posting Erma..so true! Life really is too short to sweat the small stuff.
Blessings and love,
Vikki

Vickie said...

Dolores, I think Miss Kitty (rather Mrs. Kitty) came to just the right place! She knew you were a nice lady that just couldn't say NO to those sweet little fuzzy faces! Those babies are in good hands til they go to new homes!

Love Erma Bombeck - I used to read her books - she's still "got it"!

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Pye said...

More kitten pics please! They're gorgeous.

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