I'm glad AlzCare moved David from the early/mid Alzheimer Home to the later stage home. This has been a good move for him.
There's more music in the home he's in now, and music and his puppy are the key to his happiness.
I went to visit David four times last week. He was upset and angry with me at the beginning of Wednesday's visit. However, he calmed down after a walk around the sidewalk in the backyard. Then we sat on the porch in the sunshine with his stuffed puppy.
On Thursday he was better. He told me he missed me and wanted to go home, but he was okay after I explained that he needed to be there for awhile.
On Saturday I took our son and his wife to see David; this was the best visit so far. I feel he's adjusting to his new home.
When we arrived he was sitting in the living room clapping his hands to the beat of the music.
When we arrived he was sitting in the living room clapping his hands to the beat of the music.
We walked around the sidewalk in the backyard, then we sat on the porch again. There's speakers on the porch, and David started clapping his hands to the beat of the music again and never mentioned wanting to go home.
For me........I've truly felt the prayers for David and me. They've lifted me and are sustaining me through this journey.
My emotions at times are like a roller coaster. I feel so happy knowing they're taking good care of him and that he's adjusting.
I try not to dwell on the fact that he won't be coming home, that breaks my heart.
I wish David didn't have this disease, but I must say I've learned so much, and
anyone whose had close contact with David throughout his life and even now, they come away learning good life lessons from him.
We are blessed with wonderful friends and family who've been here for us.
One day at a time and God will be with us through every moment..
For me........I've truly felt the prayers for David and me. They've lifted me and are sustaining me through this journey.
My emotions at times are like a roller coaster. I feel so happy knowing they're taking good care of him and that he's adjusting.
I try not to dwell on the fact that he won't be coming home, that breaks my heart.
I wish David didn't have this disease, but I must say I've learned so much, and
anyone whose had close contact with David throughout his life and even now, they come away learning good life lessons from him.
We are blessed with wonderful friends and family who've been here for us.
One day at a time and God will be with us through every moment..



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Praise God!
Praise God!!!May the good visits continue.
God is so good! I'm SO thrilled that David is adjusting. I hoped he would, and prayed he would! THat is good news, Dolores. I know it's hard on him, it's harder on you in a way, and I know the kids hate for this to happen, too. But I have faith that David is where he needs to be now. You won't be under so much stress and you can enjoy him when you go and visit. I was afraid for you that you'd be wearing yourself out and get sick just from the overload. So good to hear!!!!
I agree with the others...Praise God!! Love you!! L~
I'm so glad he's adjusting well! He has such a great smile. I have been and will continue to be praying for you through this journey the Lord is bringing you through. You are such a blessing! My heart goes out to you, but I am thankful you can know he is in the right place. May God continue to fill you with peace that only He can give. Hugs to you my friend!
I have tears of relief for you AND David.
Whew, I'm so glad to hear it is getting a bit easier and that David seems to be adjusting. How wonderful that he is still enjoying the music (& that they are playing it in his new place).
you sound like you are at peace...that is good...good for you and David...
Your story has been faith-building for me as well, Dolores. I stand amazed at the goodness of the Lord. David looks so relaxed and happy. Be strong and of good courage...
I am SO glad to hear your news. I've been thinking about you all week. It sounds like a wonderful place!
David looks very content in those pictures. I'm glad you and your family had a good visit with him.
So glad to read this report. Will continue to pray for the adjustments.
Hugs,
Carol
Thank you for sharing your special family time with your friends,it is wonderful reading and seeing Jeff and Kathie visiting David,proud of you,you are an amazing lady.Love you all,GOD BLESS.
David looks great! This probably means he is adjusting to his new life kind of rapidly! God bless this place, how wonderful! You are the one my friend, that been concious suffers more than him, but God is also giving you a big hand, soon you also will be adjusted to this new life and you too will re-take your "own life". I always have you and yours in my prayers. Love,
FABBY
This is wonderful news....David looks great...he seems happy. Thanks for letting us be a part of your journey.
I'm so glad David and you are slowly adjusting to this. I'm glad too that David had Casey for the time he did and that he finds comfort in his little stuffed pet.
He seems content and I'm thankful that there are good resources. Things have come a long way for ALZ patients since my mom passed away so many years ago.
Hugs Dolores,
Deb
I can imagine your heartbreak when you think of him not returning home, but you are not only a strong lady but also a wise one and you know that you did the best thing for David by finding this excellent 'home' for him. I truly believe you've made an excellent choice, all things considered. I think of you and David often and I pray for his and your adjustment to this change in life. Praise God for all the good people around you. (I liked your arm linked through his...)
So happy for you love j
Sometimes the answers to our prayers is not what we wanted! I hope you are caring extra well for yourself now...always thinking of you!!!
Becky
The second picture is my favorite.If I had seen that picture and known nothing about David's Alzheimers, I would just know that you are a couple still in love. You both look so relaxed and happy together . Truly an answer to prayers.
I hope you are doing well Dolores and your heart is more at ease , even in your lonely times.
Smiles to you both :) You sound as though you have the right outlook, and although there will be 'down' days, everyone is happy with the new surroundings. Sometimes as we left, the staff would find a job for dad to help them with. We always took many photos too :) Best wishes, Jenny
Oh Dolores, I am so happy to hear that David is adjusting very well. And I know once that happens, it will be so much easier for you too. Still praying for you....Christine
Great to hear he's doing much better! Hope YOU are taking care of yourself sweetpea! Been thinking of you and sending prayer!!
(((HUG)))
What good news that David is adjusting and the visits are getting easier for the two of you. It does take some time to settle in and it appears that David is doing just that... Many hugs, lots of prayers, Latane
I'm glad David is doing better. Glad to see such good update.
Andrea
So nice to hear your visits are better. It looks like wonderful place and David looks so happy.
Still praying the Lord blesses you both thru this journey.
Tracy
Like others, so glad he is adjusting. It all takes time. I hope you are getting lots of rest and that you are sleeping better. Taking care of yourself if also so very important.
Jeannette
I am SO Happy for you! It sounds like the perfect place for him and he's adjusting well.
Dolores...Oh..this is good news..in a way. At least David seems happy. I am so sad for you but you will make it. You are strong and God is definitely with you all the way. I care about you and David.
Still in my prayers...
Susannah
Dolores,
David looks happy. It's good to know that he is taken care of in such a positive place. You look beautiful.
God bless you.
Karen
It's wonderful to see that David is adjusting. That makes things so much easier to bear. Thank you for sharing your journey with us and for the pictures that bring the story to life. God bless you and your family...Lizzie
You and your family continue to be in my prayers, which are coming to you from San Diego! Janice
I've just joined as a follower having happened by several times in the past. Thanks for sharing your family story with others. It's a journey that many of us can identify with.
You know, every time I see David's beautiful smile it breaks my heart. I will never understnd why anyone has to get this disease but I so admire you in how you have handled this with such dignity and grace. XO, Pinky
Hello Dolores,
Its great to hear how well you are both adjusting - and I fully understand happy and sad at once! You're doing a wonderful job. There's an uncanny resemblance here between your David and my Mum - music is more and more a source of pleasure for her, and a stuffed dog! My son gave it to her at Christmas - I wouldn't have thought to do it, probably thinking it a bit "childish", but she loves it. We win some and we learn some.
Love your photos too :)
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