(Casey, Pumpkin and me)
Careful what you pray for.
Here's the story: I've been a fairly busy person most of my life. That changed when I started being a full time caretaker for David; not that I wasn't busy, but a different type of busy. I'm so thankful I had the honor/privilege of caring for my sweet David during those 9 years.
Next came AlzCare and for those 9 months..... I was still constantly thinking of him and going to see him, but I wasn't actively involved in things like I had been "before."
I've been praying for something to do besides my normal activities. As I've prayed, I've also had this thought go through my mind......."God doesn't choose the qualified, he qualifies the chosen".
Our pastor called me last week to see how I was doing....... and then....... he said, "I've been thinking about you and how organized etc you are (I'm not too sure about that). He said, "We need a new pictorial church directory and someone to be 'in charge' and I thought of you."
Oh my goodness! For most of you this wouldn't be a big deal, but truthfully.... my brain and thought process still feel like mush most of the time. I thanked him and told him I'd think and pray about it and let him know in a day or two.
I thought and prayed .... I kept coming back to the thought that had been running through my mind....I've been praying for 'something' and the thought about God will qualify me...... was running through my head. My next thought was to call 3 of my friends and see if they'd help me (if they said, "no", then I wouldn't do it). By golly, would you believe all three of them said yes with no hesitation. My friends are such a great blessing in my life.
The next 8 weeks will be challenging for me, but I keep reminding myself of my prayer and thoughts. And......I won't have so much time to think/miss David.
(Andrew and David playing army men)
Our grandson, 12 years old, is starting Confirmation at our church. He ask me to be his 'Friend in the Faith'...the friend who tries to guide him through confirmation. I am honored that he ask me. (David was the Friend in the Faith for Andrew's older brothers)..
Andrew towers over me in height.... he's the sweetest boy. David spent so much time playing 'army men' with him when he was 4, 5, and 6 years old....what a blessing!
(here he is with my best friend's daughter whose also going through confirmation, two REALLY good kids!)
God is Good!!
38 comments:
See, God heard your prayers and along came an answer!!! This will be good for you. I need to pray for something to do to. Your grandson looks like a great kid. XO, Pinky
Hi Dolores, You have seriously made my day. First, the picture of you and your animal family is simply sublime! We just got a new cat and I am so in love with it but any ways.....the pictorial job will be something to occupy your mind, your friends will help and it is only for 8 weeks! And to have your picture taken puts a smile on everyone's face! You are my encouragement. Many times I think of things that make me sad or down and then I think of you and all you have been through and then I say...if Dolores can do it...so can I. I am still praying for you and your family. Prayers are good...so good.
Blessings and happiness to you,
Susannah
Oh Dolores! I think that is GREAT news! I can't wait to hear how the Lord blesses you (and others). He led your heart and now it seems He is directing your steps. I'm excited for you dear friend!
Dolores, your words made me feel so happy....
So good to have you post again. Being busy does have benefits and you benefit others.
Hugs and prayers,
Carol
It made me so happy to see a new post from you, Dolores. I had been thinking of you and hoping that you are doing well.
I can see by the picture that your furry friends are taking good care of you :). Though I really don't know about your orginizational capabilities, I somehow believe your pastor has chosen the right woman for the job. So nice of your friends to be so willing to help.
How special that Andrew has asked you to be his Friend in the Faith.
Hugs,
Kim
I am so happy for you, challenges are a good thing! I adore that picture of you and your pets...you look marvelous..darling!
You will do a great job Dolores....sounds like things are going wel for you ...I'm so happy for you
Truly an answer from GOD!!! He does choose us. So many stories in the bible where Jesus chose people and they felt the same way you did.
Prayers for your continued walk on Faith and with the challenges ahead.
Prayers for your grandson as you nurture him in his coming confirmation.
Keep your eyes and heart on the LORD and you cant go wrong when He is leading your path.
Remembering you in prayer.
Dolores, this is wonderful news! I'm sure this project will be a great success for your church, and a wonderful project for you to move forward, as the revised title of your blog says.
As we say in MY faith, Mazel tov! :)
Love
Gilda
I'm so glad your prayers were answered, I know you're going to enjoy it. Your grandson is such a cutie. I'm still waiting for answers..hugs ~lynne ~
(dogs are on backorder will keep you posted when they come in, they are wonderful)
So happy you will have something to do to keep you busy and active. Its been 2 years for me that my John and my Mother in Law( she had alzheimers lived with me 12 years) passed away, life as I knew it was gone. Very difficult to put a check mark next to the word widow, and to see happy couples together.
God in his wisdom let me travel all over the world and then miracles of miracles he gave me a little kitten who I just adore. Life is good. Different but good.
Take care Delores
Diane
I'm so happy that you were guided to this wonderful project with such good friends to help you along the way. And who knows where it may lead you!
~Laura (formerly from A Simple Happy Life)
With four of you on the job it's going to be so much fun. I really do think so. God is good and this is going to be a great project! Enjoy it.
Your grandson is a handsome boy. He looks quite a bit like his dad and granddad, I think.
God is good. God answers prayers. And I KNOW you can do this! You will be great at it. I am thrilled for you.Love, sandie
I can always relate to the things you write about during this time of grief.
What perfect timeing and it is probably something you will enjoy doing.
My best to you..and God bless!
Mona
So glad to hear from you!
I sure wish God answered me as clearly as he does you. I guess it's because I dont' have the faith you do. I'm trying.
I'm so glad you'll have something out of the ordinary to occupy your mind for a while; it's a great distraction!
love you lots,
your adoptive daughter in CA...
barbara
This sounds not only like n answer to prayer, but a lot of fun! Oh joy...you're going to be an active part of your grandson's spiritual life , and also a very needed and useful project. God is indeed so good to us.
Hi Dolores - thank you for sharing this answered prayer with us! I LOVE seeing how God works in our lives and provides. He knew exactly what you needed. Not only will you be busy with the directory, but you will be blessing your grandson! AND receiving plenty of blessing yourself. This is wonderful news and David would be so proud of you! Sending you a big hug, friend!
Loving the pictures of you and your furry friends!!!
So happy that you have this opportunity! You will do a fabulous job!!
Oh DOlores, I am so happy for you! Congrats on the new job! You will be so good at it!..
Christine
How wonderful Dolores!! You'll have that book put together in no time!
Love that he called YOU!!!
hughugs
Casey looks camera shy :)
The project sounds just right. Not too big, not to small – just right :) Enjoy!
Wait - that must be Pumpkin...Casey is the dog, right? Such a happy photo of you and your pets :) Almost (just almost) makes me think of getting one.
God does listen to you my friend!!...and hey, your friends also responded, you are one blessed lady!! You look gorgeous in the picture with the dogs, with that beautiful smile and face!! This pic needs to be framed, it's so great to see your lovely face with such a wonderful smile, wow!! Congrats to your adorable grandson for his "confirmation" in the faith. He too looks adorable in the pic with his handsome granpa, such memories David left with his grands...kids have the best memories from us, mostly when they are so young, not after, much...I think, caz I do! Thank you for your sweet and kind visit. You are such a special friend to me. Big hugs,
FABBY
This is great news Dolores! Win, win project as you have 3 friends backing you up!
Love the picture of you and your furry friends..makes me smile
Jeannette
Dolores,
I am so excited for you. God is so good at answering our prayers. What an exciting and rewarding opportunity. You are going to create the most wonderful church directory.
I love this!
Karen
I pray you are doing okay.
About your orchid, have you repotted it? Get rid of the old bark that may have broken down into soil. The roots need air so this maybe your problem. Also get some good orchid food, that will help as well.
GOD bless you and keep you safe.
Your post made my day, was the shiny moment...first one this morning. God IS good, always has been, always will be. I am so very happy for you. Please keep me in prayer. I am doing better but have been praying for the Lord to guide me toward something that will make this present transition a bit easier to handle. I know that he will. He is so kind and loves us so dearly. It takes time too, I know, for each of us to work through our sorrows. Losing a spouse, one that was our best friend is very hard, as you know. Again, let me say not just how happy I am to hear your good news but how very proud of you I am. It takes courage to take on new things but challenges are good. There is a miracle somewhere in this trial of mine..probably many. I have discovered some of them, by God's grace. You take care of yourself. And by the way, before I forget I want to say that you are so beautiful.
Wishing you the very best always.
Hi Dear Dolores,
Congratulations on taking on this project. I think you have exciting things coming in your life, yes, God is good and he listens to us. He knew you needed something to do so he gave it to you. I am so happy for you and also wanted to tell you how pretty you are and look in the picture with your fur babies. Blessings and Hugs...Lu
Thinking of you.
I'm so glad to hear you're going to be busy working on a new project. How honored to be chosen as your grandson's Friend in Faith. That's so nice that some of your family lives close to you. I didn't realize. I thought your family all lived in the Houston area. You have so many special memories and great photos!
How are you doing Delores? Inquiring minds want to know!
Dolores,
I think of you often and pray for you on Fridays. I look to you as the example of how a Christian faces the horrible death of her spouse with so much grace. I am praying for you in this next phase of your life and hope you are well now.
Hugs,
Carol
Just checking on you...ou must be Busy! And this is a GOOD thing...
Love you!
hughugs
I love how God is taking care of you.
Love, Rebecca
God doesn't choose the qualified, he qualifies the chosen..what a lovely and fitting quote for caregivers.
Dolores, your blog is great (I love your photos too). Thanks for posting and sharing. Your most recent was great...
Sometimes, things just fall in your lap, huh? - David
Just peeking in. I'm worried about the church directory. Have missed seeing you in Blogdom. A wonderful and blessed Holy Week to you.
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