We've had two of our grandchildren here for several days. David handled the changes fairly well. Our 17 year old grandson is so smart and very patient; he spent most of his time setting up my new computer, and spending time with his cousin's who live nearby.
Our 10 year old granddaughter is so sweet! She loved playing with our cats and dog and swimming in the pool.
Lily Bud is growing up and having a good life.
This phone has been so important to me!!! It's given me a sense of comfort when I go somewhere for just a short time. Sometimes David doesn't want to go with me, and I call to check on him and tell him I'm on my way home.
Picking up the receiver to this telephone, sounds so simple, but Alzheimer's has dealt a new loss......I called and called him one day this week and he never answered, so I assumed he was outside sweeping, but when I came home he was inside. He said he heard the phone ringing, but couldn't remember how to answer it.........I'm grieving the loss of something so simple.....but when I look at his happy face with our granddaughter......I say, "thank you God for grandchildren and happy faces!" 
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I'm here ... always.
Such beautiful grands and that kitty looks he has the world at his fuzzy little feet...best wishes from a hot, hot Tennessee...
Grandchildren are so precious, isn't it, Delores? Your grands are so beautiful and smart too. And it is wonderful to see that big smile on David's face....Christine
sweet one, we take SO MUCH for granted don't we?
these moments with *the grands* will mean the world to them the older they get.
hugs to you.
Janean is right we do take so much fro granted.
Your grands are wonderful !
Children are a joy!
Were doing it one day at a time too, everyday is a challenge for MIL, our names are eluding her , she can't remember her children's names, or their spouses, let alone grandchildren.Yet sometimes for a bit of time she can be as bright as a new penny.We never know what's next...
Diane
Dearheart this is another lovely post. So heartfelt and quietly reminds us to step back and be thankful for even the little things.
Dolores, I appreciate you blog so much. It is helping me to understand just what my mom was going through when she started getting sick. God bless him; my dad tried so hard to keep it from me. Keep hanging on, friend.
The loss of something as simple to us as answering the phone is so hard to take. Many prayers and hugs your way.... ~lynne~
I just mentioned on my blog about the joys and despairs we encounter with Alzheimers. Something so simple as using the phone.... lost. It's such a sad thing. Then I see the joy in David's face with his granddaughter. What a sweet pictures. Blessings, Latane
What a handsome grandson and beautiful granddaughter. It is such a blessing to have grandchildren , and it is wonderful to see David knows them and is happy with them.
The kitten has grown a lot!
Isn't it lovely to see young ones/teenagers still wanting to visit grandparents with alzheimers/dementia. My nieces and nephews don't mind visiting their grandfather, either. They are also respectful of the other residents too. Best wishes, Jenny
What fabulous grandchildren and I but you were quite happy to not have to set up your computer. I know I would be! How wonderful that they are able to spend this time with David(and with you of course!).
Karla
Your grandchildren are Gorgeous kiddos!! I hate to hear about the phone business though sweetheart!
Sending you love...
PS- I bought the book you recommended...Hired Help...Haven't got to it yet, but I will!
((HUG))
Hi Dolores,
I'm so sorry to hear about this newest loss.
I am glad to hear that things went well when your grandchildren were visiting. The photos are so sweet as is the one of little Lily Bud.
Hugs,
Kim
I wonder if they make an auto-answer bluetooth type thing for home phones...I'll have to check.
Did you re-show him how to answer the phone? I'm glad he had fun with the grandkids though!
Hi there! I popped over from Donna's blog and wanted to tell you how very much I can relate to your blog. My mom had Alzheimer's and it is such a tough disease...for the family as well as the person who has it. If you get a chance...pick up this book...it is called "Still Alice"
http://www.amazon.com/Still-Alice-Lisa-Genova/dp/1439102813
My sister and I both read it and it helped us to understand some of what my mom must have been feeling.
If I can help in any way...please do not hesitate to ask...anything...blessings to you and your family...
Jeanne
I am so sorry. I do hope he will remember next time. It is the small things like answering the phone that will make a big change in your life. My prayers are with you and David. Great picture with his grandbaby . You are right thank God for grandbabies and Happy faces.
I'm thinking of you today Miss D! Lifting you up and praying for strength as you face each new day.
I watched the video on your previous post. I wept more than ever...somehow, somehow, SOMEHOW, SOMEONE MUST FIND A CURE!
Love to you this summer eve. Thank you for the sweet comments on my baby shoes.
Rebecca
Hi Dolores - glad you both got to spend some time with your grandchildren. I know they enjoyed it, too, and will be glad they came each and every time as things decline. I have not ever regretted one moment spent with my grandmother.
Your little kitty looks almost exactly like my Sambo. Same coloring and everything! They are growing fast!
I hope y'all have a wonderful and memorable weekend, Dolores! Hugs!
How did I miss this post, sorry. Beautiful grandchildren, you are so lucky to have such a wonderfully supportive family! And these young ones, aren't they a wiss at the computer!! Just amazes me!
Email me any time you need an hear! Thanks for your many posts on my blog.
Dolores,
just read your post. I am so very sorry; it really is heartbreaking this disease. You are amazing and a inspiration in how you keep on keeping on. I am happy that your grandchildren are there to bring you joy and I am thankful that David has you! Thank you for your note of encouragement. It is amazing how the Lord brings people into our lives to lift us up.
Love and blessings,
Vikki
Just checking in, Delores. Hope you are having a nice weekend.
Hugs from Iowa (where it is still beastly hot).
XO XO XO
OMG! I'm ON! I clicked your blog last night just to see if by some chance....and it's UP!!! I'm hoping this comment gets through....
Now I'm off to look at your posts! Lilly Bud is adorable!
I love you very much and am praying you have a better day!
Laura
Hi Dolores. I just posted a similar comment on Latane's blog...
I'm back home after my two-week vacation, and just catching up on all my mail, email, and blogs. I was a little nervous about catching up on your blog, because I was afraid of seeing bad news. I was so sorry to read about David's new difficulty with the phone, but delighted to see your photos of David and your grandchildren. Any man who can give such a big smile while bouncing a grandchild on his knee or swimming in a pool still has lots of life left in him :)
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